Your Mountain Times staff is thankful for many
things: family, friends, Tito Puente. As many Americans begin
to salivate over their respective turkeys, tofurkeys and spamurkeys,
its important to remember the true meaning of Thanksgiving:
kneeling in prayer and thanking our maker for arriving in the
New World after a hellish journey across thousands of sea miles.
Transatlantic journeys aside, its oftentimes the little
things that elude our appreciation. Other times, its the
big things were just too gosh-darned busy to notice. Sometimes,
its both, and sometimes, its kittens. After all, theyre
fuzzy and playful. Here are some things for which were thankful.
1. Basin
2. Cant find it 3. Cylinder thing 4. Plug 5. No idea
6. Other thing 7. Box thing 8. Hose thing
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It is amazingly easy to get bogged down with life.
To let little things bring you down and make you forget that there
are equally as many little things that are great as there are
that are bad.
I mean, there are some big things that deserve our thanks, like
the polio vaccine and several great works of art and literature.
But those things are easy to be thankful for. I appreciate my
friends and family nearly every single day, but it is harder to
stop for a moment and think of those little things in life that
we take for granted.
I could list hundreds of examples of the little things in my life
that warrant such thanks. However, Im sure you dont
have time for that, as the holiday season tends to be hectic for
just about everyone. So, Ill write on just one: my garbage
disposal.
This modern miracle ranks right up there with nonstick cookware
and remote keyless entry, in my book. Not all homes have garbage
disposals, just as not all cars have remote keyless entry and
not all pans are coated with Teflon. My current home does have
one, and I love it.
I try to minimize the amount of waste I produce, motivated by
the fact that I have to haul my own garbage more than any genuine
concern for the environment (I am concerned, but Im also
a bit lazy). Thus, I visit the Foscoe Container Site maybe every
other week.
Two weeks is plenty of time for a bag of garbage to get good and
smelly, enticing raccoons to pry open my outdoor trash can and
scatter its contents all over my porch. Heres where the
garbage disposal comes in. Rather than scrape scraps into the
garbage, I can simply rinse them down the drain. No smelly garbage
can. No clever raccoons (not that I have anything more against
raccoons than I would have against any animal who spills trash
everywhere). No risk of the bag busting and dropping its gooey
contents all over my feet as I try to lift it into a Dumpster.
It took me several years of living without a garbage disposal
to come to appreciate the one that I have, but it will be a long
time before I take it for granted again.

Turning
left shouldnt be this difficult.
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It must be carelessness. Either that or busy-ness
(not to be confused with business). Youre on a two-way street
and you have to turn left. Traffic begins backing up at a stoplight
in the other direction, and your window of opportunity is rapidly
closing. The cars arent going anywhere, for the red light
is stern and oppressive. A car comes to a halt and blocks the
street on which you hoped to turn, while traffic behind you begins
to pile up like oiled hamburger patties on an asphalt bun. From
there, the offending driver stares obliviously ahead or avoids
making eye contact.
Its an all-too-common scenario, and especially in Boone.
Boone, however, is a nice town, filled to its ridges with friendly,
courteous people, many of whom are kind enough to slow down and
let people turn. To these stalwart stewards of streets, it is
you for whom I am thankful and willing to write whom
three times in one paragraph.

Thankful is a word I use often in my daily life
now because I choose it to be. In so many years of my life, thankful
was a word I truly did not grasp. I was so afraid of what might
go wrong, or what I may lose, that I was not equipped to relax
and enjoy the blessings that come your way each day. Yes, it was
not a healthy way to live because it robbed me of the small joys
in life. These joys come in various forms: a kind word; a loving
touch; good deeds; the unconditional love of animals; singing
off-key to a favorite song; good health and family.
These are the joys that rear their heads everyday, but only if
you are looking and not spending your time worrying about the
what ifs in life. Today, Im looking these joys squarely
in their face, and that is what I am most certainly thankful for.
I hope you are, too. As the old saying goes, Life is a gift;
thats why its called the present.

Blue
the dog is hardly a little thing, but Melanie
is thankful for him, all the same.
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When it comes to daily life, I find an innumerable
quantity of things to be grateful for, the things that make every
day easier and more enjoyable. Something small can put a person
in the worst mood for the remainder of a day, so why not reverse
that and appreciate the smallest detail to improve the mood.
I attempted to narrow it down to a one or two, but this proved
to be too much of a challenge. What to choose a brownie
still warm from the oven with an icy glass of milk or a waiter/waitress
that recognizes when my tea is empty? That is a tough call.
Instead I offer a few things that come to mind: a good ink pen
that writes smooth and doesnt burst in my pocket, fresh
flowers, knowing the answer to a trivia question, sipping a cup
of hot tea, the different sound vinyl has when listening to favorite
song, new socks, cooking a four-star dinner for one, hot apple
butter, my dogs reaction when I come home from work, an
excessively long scarf of the softest yarn, inside jokes, wearing
pajamas while it is still daylight, smiles from strangers, waking
up to a fresh snowfall only to run outside and make a snow angel,
and the metal barrier on a rotary phone that kept you from dialing
past zero.
I think there is a link between optimism and gratitude in life.
For Thanksgiving, I offer a favorite quote, though I do not know
the author, Let us rise up and be thankful, for if we didnt
learn a lot today, at least we learned a little, and if we didnt
learn a little, at least we didnt get sick, and if we got
sick, at least we didnt die; so, let us all be thankful.

This year Im thankful for a lot of things,
particularly the opportunity to spend time with my family and
friends. I have cousins and in-laws in Florida, Ohio and all over
North Carolina and this year I saw just about every one of them.
Im also thankful that my toenail on my left big toe is growing
back. In the spring I dropped a heavy platter and it turned sideways
in midair and the edge smashed into the back of my toenail. This
dropped me like a sack of potatoes and within minutes the entire
toenail turned black. Two days later the toenail came off
Im
not going to describe the carnage that was left underneath.
If youve ever wondered how fast a big toenail grows, Im
here to tell you not very quickly. It has been approximately seven
months since my old toenail got whacked and the new one is only
about halfway up to where it should be. But Im thankful
that I dont have to go through the rest of my life with
a left big toe sans toenail.
(Editors Note: In respect for all that is decent and
good, there will be no picture of Jeffs bruised toenail
to accompany his MountainTop pick. Instead, heres a picture
of a puppy in a flower pot.)
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